My man and I have been together over5 years. We have 2 kids,was in a life threating car wreck, that I thought brought us closer but he doesn't seem interested in me anymore or at least that's how I feel... it doesn't matter if I dress sexy (or nothing at all!) he doesn't ever try to be romantic anymore... I love him so much but he won't talk to me he shruggs it off, or falls asleep. He's never been good at talking about his feelings but I feel like I'm nothing and I can't stand it. I want the same love that I have to give! The passion! So how can I express myself to make him understand?

Hard to say. Could be some physiological changes brought on by the car wreck.

How is the relationship otherwise? Intimacy outside of the bed room. Kissing, hugging, etc... Is it at the same level.

The bottom line is that you need to sit him down and don't let him shrug it off. There are a multitude of reasons. How has his health been since?