alisha91love
Mar 30, 2012, 04:07 AM
Everything was going well, but suddenly my boyfriend told me on a phone call that he don't want to be with me anymore! I asked for a reason, he said that he's got a personal problem! But he would like to be my friend!
I'm not getting what to do now! The truth is that, I can't live without him! What should I do now??
Plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help!!
I even thought of committing suicide but I didn't get a chance to be alone! Plzzzz suggest me what to do...
DaniCalifornia
Mar 30, 2012, 06:37 AM
Don't be his friend, it'll make things more difficult for you. Avoid him where possible. Getting a new hobby is always a good way to help ease pain. Keep your friends and family close.
Of course you shouldn't commit suicide. There are obstacles in life but it's a refreshing proud feeling when you DO overcome them. I promise you'll feel better.
x Dani
DoulaLC
Mar 30, 2012, 06:48 AM
Hi alisha91love,
Of course you can live without him. You lived without him before you met him, right?
It hurts right now, and unfortunately there isn't a quick way to make that stop. As Dani said, surround yourself with family and friends. They will help you through this.
I agree, don't be friends with him. It will be too hard right now. Who knows, maybe at a later time, but for now it would be best to just make a clean break.
You will likely have a number of "loves" before you are older and find someone that really is the best fit. Along the way, you will have disappointments, and hurt feelings, that is sometimes part of being in relationships with people. But you learn from each one that doesn't work out.
Too hard to understand or believe that now, but you will. We all have gone through it. Sooner or later, your friends will go through it, and you will be able to offer them comfort and support. Give yourself time to get passed this. Some days will be hard, some days will be OK, but before long it will get easier and you will find that you have moved on.