atenik
Mar 18, 2012, 01:09 PM
My boyfriend and I have been together for four years, and just two days ago he asked my father's permission to marry me.
My boyfriend has some depression/mental illness issues that I am aware of and I do not see myself spending my life with him.
Today when my boyfriend and I left my apartment we started approaching my car, he quickly pointed out that the front grill on my car was vandelised, (he pays attention to everything), things I do not pay attention too. Anyway, he yelled at me about what happened to my car I stated I do not know, he then said to me "people who vandelise your car is trying to tell you something", so he kept on yelling at me about "what's going on and why does my car look like garbage now"? I got quiet and then I turned to him and said maybe you did it since you are all upset and questioning me about something I don't know. I asked him was he going to take care of fixing it for me? He didn't answer me, then he screamed at me again saying "you better stop playing with me, why would I mess with your car when I want to marry you?" I said I don't know who did it or why? I do recall him telling me when he was in he was a young adulthood he would vandelise people's cars when he was angry.
I don't know what to think I am confused, mad, hurt, and don't know if I should trust him? I need some comments on this article...
My boyfriend has some depression/mental illness issues that I am aware of and I do not see myself spending my life with him.
Today when my boyfriend and I left my apartment we started approaching my car, he quickly pointed out that the front grill on my car was vandelised, (he pays attention to everything), things I do not pay attention too. Anyway, he yelled at me about what happened to my car I stated I do not know, he then said to me "people who vandelise your car is trying to tell you something", so he kept on yelling at me about "what's going on and why does my car look like garbage now"? I got quiet and then I turned to him and said maybe you did it since you are all upset and questioning me about something I don't know. I asked him was he going to take care of fixing it for me? He didn't answer me, then he screamed at me again saying "you better stop playing with me, why would I mess with your car when I want to marry you?" I said I don't know who did it or why? I do recall him telling me when he was in he was a young adulthood he would vandelise people's cars when he was angry.
I don't know what to think I am confused, mad, hurt, and don't know if I should trust him? I need some comments on this article...