She has demonstrated deep love and commitment to me /us. Whoever I keep seeing signs that have made me very suspicious. She love very sexy pantie and has bought a resent bag of 4pc 4 weeks ago,she has never worn them.She has had biz travel plans for 5 weeks for a 4 day conference. She packed where I could see 4-5 pairs of nice ,not new panties. I did look to see them, no big deal. We also talked about late night Skype to say good night. It never happened. When she got home and the suit case was opened I saw on the bottom a paid new sexy black lace, the very uncomfortable material and a new pair with tags on it stuffed in a leg of her gym stuff.

When I asked about it she I have no panties and brought some new,well she has 100's of nice old one.

I'm I right on on thinking those were to possibly to be seen on just in case the pop came up?

If you have issues with her, you tell her how you feel. Don't just ask her but have more open conversations with her. Express how she's making you feel and how you feel about something that makes you uncomfortable. You have to be more communicative with your feelings and not just asking her and receiving some yes and no answers. Tell her about the things that bother you a lot and about the things that make you feel like you're getting distant from each other.

You're in a relationship - ask her.

I happen to like nice, pretty expensive, sexy lingerie - I don't wear it for someone else. I wear it because I like it.

She should be entitled to select her underwear without having to make an explanation to you.