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j0yce123
Mar 13, 2012, 09:47 AM
Hi,
Recently I've been having practically no sexual pleasure when my husband and I have sex. Nothing is painful or unbearable, or not even like I can't feel him when we have intercourse--it's just that it's not pleasurable any more. I say "any more" because it used to be vaginal intercourse was good for me, considering I'm a g-spot person. I'm 23, so I don't think I should be having these problems at this age. I also have two kids (both c-sections), so I now have an IUD (Mirena). Could the birth control have something to do with it? Also, my husband is in the military and he goes on 2-3 month deployments for the past year, so maybe just getting used to him being in and out of the house like that?
It's even hard for me to get off by myself. I get sensitive way too quickly, and it hurts to touch myself before I come close to orgasm. I don't know if I'm super frustrated and impatient or WHAT is wrong, but I need ideas of is going on. Heeellppp!

ArdentLover
Mar 14, 2012, 05:04 PM
Do you use any other form of stimulation such as a vibrator? I am thinking that maybe you could possibly try different positions to see which ones help you orgasm better. Be verbal about your problem with your husband so that he can help you get off when he is around. I hope you feel better soon! (: