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prettygirlsswag
Mar 11, 2012, 11:39 AM
So I have been dating this girl for about 6 months now. I may add that I am a female. I also have a fiancé. Yes I am bisexual. My fiancé is aware, and has approved of me seeing women he kind of finds it sexy I think. However, this thing with me, and this girl wasn't supposed to be on like a relationship level. It was just kind of supposed to be FWB type thing.

Well we both ended up having strong feelings for one another. She knows I have a fiancé and will never leave him. (That was made clear from day 1) A couple weeks ago she became distant. I sent her a message explaining to her my feelings. Her response? " I just need some time to myself". Here we are a week and a half later, and she won't talk to me at all. I tried to just ask if we were still together and I got no response. I even went so far as to try calling to talk to her and as soon as she heard my voice she hung up in my face. I figured that it was over.

I am hurt but I'll get over it. She has mail and clothes and personal things here that I asked her to come and get AND she also has my house key. But I have gotten no response in reference to that. I even told her you don't have to get it yourself, just send someone to drop it off and pick your stuff up. So I am a bit confused now as to what is going on. I am not really big on games, and I think this is what it is. She finds me as a challenge. She has said she will never leave me, but she doesn't want to share.

She is jealous of my fiancé and has made that clear. What am I supposed to do other then ignore her. I do want my key back and I'd like to move on with my life. I'm not really sure what this is all about.

talaniman
Mar 11, 2012, 02:11 PM
I think you realize that things were great by your rules, until she just wanted more than she was getting. Pack up her stuff, and have it delivered, and if you have to, changes the locks, and move on.

prettygirlsswag
Mar 13, 2012, 04:58 PM
I never thought they were great... but I did tell her well before we got deep into this... pls don't stay in this relationship if you can't handle it.. I will be the one hurt later on down the road not you... and she swore up and down that she wouldn't do that and heck the least she could have done was given me the courtesy to tell me it was over.

talaniman
Mar 13, 2012, 05:08 PM
To bad she didn't do it your way, and I doubt if she does. Do what you have to do, to move on without her.