View Full Version : Why muslim girls are not allowed to have a boyfriend?
jmark15
Mar 10, 2012, 12:56 AM
WHY? In converted in islam before 4 years. I just knew about not allowed bf/gf thing when I as my friend to be my girlfriend. Then she answer me,"I like you to stay as my special friend". I really really love her but when I read some information about this subject I lose my hopes.She is a very nice girl.
Can any one tell where its written in quran that girls are not allowed to have a boyfriend. That's the only thing I believe. I don't care what others say, I believe only what the quran says. Allah-u-akber.
jenniepepsi
Mar 10, 2012, 07:44 AM
Assalamu Alaikum!
First, congratulations on finding your way to Islam.
Now, there is no actual word 'boyfriend/girlfriend' in the Quran.
But we are told girls are not to be around boys alone. We are not to flirt or show off for each other.
I cannot explain it very easily. But this site may help you.
What Islam says about Boyfriends and Girlfriends | Shajahan Ahmed's blog (http://shajahanahmed.wordpress.com/2010/04/17/what-islam-says-about-boyfriends-and-girlfriends/)
jmark15
Mar 13, 2012, 02:15 PM
I think the one who tell that girls are not allowed to be with girls are the old ancester. Because on old times its not merry with love (its still in some muslim country) its force marrige. It the CULTURE. Is it written in quran that you can force other people.
jenniepepsi
Mar 13, 2012, 04:38 PM
Yes, but the Quran also says, that when a man and woman are unmarried, and alone, then Satan is always a 3rd presence.
jmark15
Mar 25, 2012, 01:53 PM
Why Allah didn't kill eliminate Satan!