My periods from 2011
Jan: Yes
Feb: No
March: 28th
April: No
May: 6th
June: 4th
July: 6th
August: 6th
September: 14th
October: 14th
November: 21st
December: 26th

My periods from 2012
January: 31?
February: No
March: No

My husband and I got our own place 2/2/2012. For awhile I was loving it. I was getting up every day at 7:00 am and just loving the sun shine and being an early bird listening to the birds sing and just cleaning. My husband use to make fun of me when I was sad their was no laundry to do lol. Now he's notice a big 360 on me. All I want to do is sleep. I go to bed at my normal bed time and the next day I am still in bed. My mood as I call it sluggy and muggy. I just feel so drained like I ran a marathon. I notice couple days ago the weather was 75 (sounds nice right) I was *****ing that I felt like it was the summer time. I was like it's to damn hot out. He's like honey go take a shower or drink ice water. And then he was telling me a coworker of his who has the hots for my husband goes up to him glowly and saild look I'm pregnant and made him feel her stomach. I was bawling like a baby saying I wish that was me and saying that to my husband, look we are pregnant. When he tells me how she feels I wish it was me and I just cry. Just last night in the shower I called my husband saying I loved him and bawled my eyes out. He was like are you OK and I said yeah that I loved him.

He felt my stomach in the kitchen last night and had a look on his face like "damn it it's a girl." I was like what? He said his coworker had a ball size on her lower stomach and he felt mine on top indicating it was a girl. Then he went on to tell me he rubs my stomach when I am sleeping talking to my belly saying "I don't know if your in their or maybe your a peanut but mommy and daddy can't wait till your here. We can play games and go fishing." I lost it right their and I bawled like a baby! He's like are you OK and hugged me and kissed me.

That coworker of his whose pregnant I dislike her so much! She had a ex fiancŽ in jail, was engaged to him, then cheated on him, broke it off, then found some dude at the bar who was like way younger then her, broke up with him because of his age and then found someone else and told my husband he loves me for me, I guess they were in bed their 2nd date going at it and he said I love you to her and boom she got pregnant. She was one to jump in bed with anyone. But that doesn't stop her I can tell from hitting on my husband. Even after we were engaged she tried to say oh look at me I am single and my husband to be was like that's nice, and picked out some roses to surprise me with.

Here it is 8:46am and my tummy says feed me feed me
Going to go eat something. Now question for you all should I have hubby buy test or am I just like dreaming it all?

To make matters worst I been getting headaches after headaches. So I thought it was my lack of coffee. Nope wrong I still am getting them.

And then when I woke up I felt like I was getting my period since it felt squishy down their but I ran to the bathroom and peed and peed like I drank a gallon of water.

PLEASE HELP!

First off there is no way to tell the gender of a baby by how the mother's stomach feels. So put that concern to rest.

Since you have missed a period, and possibly two, try a test. Make sure that you follow the directions carefully.

Your other concern seems to be this coworker of your husband's. Does your husband know that the talk of her pregnancy bothers you? Is she a close friend or merely a coworker? Close friend, I could see maybe feeling her stomach once. Coworker, not appropriate. She can't "make" him feel her stomach. He can simply say "No, thanks". It also appears far too much personal information is being shared about who she has been with. Maybe he should try and not get involved in her sharing of details and keep it more focused on work.
That's something to discuss with your husband if it bothers you. I know it makes it extra hard to know that she is pregnant and you are wanting to be. Do your best to not let it get to you. Let your husband know that you would rather not hear about it.

Have you tried various ways to determine when you are most likely to be ovulating? Have you been trying to become pregnant since the beginning of last year or more so just recently? It can sometimes take quite a bit of time for it to happen.