My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for about 3 months , but him and I have liked each other since June of last year but never really admitted it. I don't get to text him anymore because my dad turned off the texting. But doesn't know I have calling.and ever since my texting got turned off I haven't see him in a while or talked to him much only when I get the chance which isn't often. I would ask my dad if him and I could hangout but my dad doesn't like his age. By the way I'm 16 and he's 18. My mum is okay with him and I dating though. She doesn't fully like him because he is too lazy or busy I guess to go to my mum's house and meet her. And she told him he's always welcomed at the house if he wants to hangout. But I don't know if he cares anymore about me or is seeing someone else because I get the feeling that if he cared about me he would make the effort towards trying to see me as much as possible. And my birthday is this week and he said he was going to get me a present and give it to me Friday. But he said that he was going to hangout with me last week, the week before, and the week before that.


Any advice if I should keep this relationship going or not? I love him a lot but he irritates me a lot by doing this. And it doesn't seem like much of a relationship if we never get to see each other. We only live like 15 minutes. Away.

I tend to stay away from people that say the words, but don't do the actions. I mean a guy who doesn't keep his word is just not worth wasting time on.

Your dad is only being protective. He was 18 once, so he will know how your boyfriend feels.

But you are right. If he did care, he would make the effort. In the harshest words, if you were worth it to him, he'd act that way.

x Dani