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heyheyhey1
Mar 2, 2012, 10:02 AM
I'm 14 years old and I have a massive problem. It all started in year 2 when I lied telling everyone my mum was pregnant to look cool in show and tell. Then it got to year 5 and 6 and I was a player with boys, and I think everyone was in primary school. In year 6 I lied about so many different things, and I played to boys. High school year 7 I started going out with lots of boys but so does everyone I guess. In year 7 and I made up some lies I'm sure to make me sound more interesting. In year 8 I started telling people I was bullied in primary school and how one of my good friends was one that's carried on. I lied about a lot more things then to year 9 I made up I got off with a guy that's really popular and they all asked him and he said he didn't even know me.

I told one of my best friends this girl was bullying me and she told everyone and then the girl I said that did, she wasn't even bullying me and now everyone hates me for it. I regret it and then I met up with my friends ex, and lied to her that I didn't.

I need to start telling the truth but I don't know how someone help

JudyKayTee
Mar 2, 2012, 11:15 AM
You need to stop lying. The only way to do that MIGHT be to see a counsellor and find out why you lie so much about trivial things.

You are pretty much trapped with the same people who have labeled you a liar but you can change your behavior, regain their trust and wait to graduate from school, start over.

Someone at school, pehaps a Social Worker or someone with that type of background, might be able to help you.

You are the only one who can change your own behavior.

mmresd
Mar 2, 2012, 11:32 AM
You just stop.

talaniman
Mar 2, 2012, 01:32 PM
Tell your mom, and let her get you some help for your pathological lying.