There was this guy I was seeing for three years. He had and still has a girlfriend. I was VERY frustrated that he was emotionally unavailable. It's been a month since we have talked because I kept pushing him away because I was annoyed and frustrated that he ended up staying away. He contacted me two days ago saying that he just wanted to let me know the reason he hasn't contacted me... It's been a month and I was okay with this. Mind you this guy and I have been through SOOO much and I used to love him and blah blah blah... I am finally realizing I DON'T need a man in my life, especially one that made me miserable all the time. I am happy by myself. My friend told me about the no contact rule this morning and told me to Google it and I did... To anybody who wants power back.. DO NOT CONTACT THE EX OR EX LOVER! It's not worth the pain that they caused you.

Awesome! This is what we tell people all the time and I'm glad to see that someone is doing it and getting along.

I hope things get better for you soon. Stay strong and good luck to you.