Hi everyone! So I have this situation with my friend who I have a HUGE crush on. Well I've liked him since last year when we met and he really likes one of my close friends. Me and him are like brother and sister and we chat each other almost every day on gmail. But I'm scared to tell him that I like him because I don't want to ruin our relationship that we have already.

I know I completely like him and more than anyone I've ever liked. But he really likes my friend and so if I tell him then I'm scared that he will reject me. But I'm planning on telling him in May at our school prom. He's going with his other friend who kind of invited herself, I asked him who he was going to ask and he was going to ask my friend before the girl he's going with invited herself.

He told me he'd dance with me if I had no one to dance with but he said he'd ask me to dance with him as a bro. :( uggggh when ever he call me his sis I don't feel right)! I really like him. But yaa I don't know what's going to happen if I tell him:/

Do you want to risk ruining your friendship? If so, tell him. Why wait until May?

If not, don't say anything.

Life is one big risk.

I MARRIED my best friend.

I think since this will come clear out of the blue, he will be shocked, plus you already know he likes your friend, and no telling what will happen between now, and May. Do you think he told you that he will dance with you as a brother was a hint on what his feelings are about? I know you like the guy, but something tells me that he may NOT return your feelings or wants to just keep the sister friendship.

Not all our feelings, no matter how strong should be acted on but its your risk to take, but you may lose your best friend, and your girl best friend, as I doubt she would be happy with you as the competition.

Yes, never let a guy mess up your friendship with another person. If you want my opinion, I think you should ask, whenever you want. I think the reason is because if you REALLY like him, and if he likes you, he'd be okay with it, and if he blows you off, he was never a good friend, and there are plenty of other fish in the sea. Take a chance. Good luck! :D