Nainachakra
Feb 29, 2012, 09:14 AM
I'm 21 and I was in a relationship with this guy for 3 years.. Life was perfect.. We were really good together.. We used to be together practically all the time.. For me it was it was love at first sight.. Because we're in year, same class we got talking and really clicked.. I mean he was the first guy I was so comfortable with.. And then he asked me out and it seemed so natural to date him..
Well we do have a difference in personalities.. I mean I'm kind of outspoken and he is a little shy.. I'm get really excited about things and then get angry and depressed also really fast.. He's just always calm.. Hardly any ups n downs in emotions..
But well those 3 years were the best years of my life.. But 2 weeks back he broke up with me saying that he just doesn't feel the same anymore.. He says he still cares got me.. But he doesn't love me.. I mean is that even possible? How can you just suddenly fall out of love for somebody who you have been with for 3 years? He insists that there is nobody else.. That he just wants to be alone for sometime and figure himself out..
But me.. I'm shattered.. I mean I don't know what yo do with my time anymore.. I just keep crying all the time.. I am still talking to him just as friends because I don't know what I'll do if he completely goes out of my life.. But I don't know what to do.. We're in he same college so I have to see him everyday.. I'm so confused and completely heart broken.. Please help..
Well we do have a difference in personalities.. I mean I'm kind of outspoken and he is a little shy.. I'm get really excited about things and then get angry and depressed also really fast.. He's just always calm.. Hardly any ups n downs in emotions..
But well those 3 years were the best years of my life.. But 2 weeks back he broke up with me saying that he just doesn't feel the same anymore.. He says he still cares got me.. But he doesn't love me.. I mean is that even possible? How can you just suddenly fall out of love for somebody who you have been with for 3 years? He insists that there is nobody else.. That he just wants to be alone for sometime and figure himself out..
But me.. I'm shattered.. I mean I don't know what yo do with my time anymore.. I just keep crying all the time.. I am still talking to him just as friends because I don't know what I'll do if he completely goes out of my life.. But I don't know what to do.. We're in he same college so I have to see him everyday.. I'm so confused and completely heart broken.. Please help..