I have a one year old, congested, runny nose, no fever, but occasional sweating. I need to know what to give her. Her at limits me, n pulls at her ear at times.

No need to give her anything. If she doesn't stop pulling at her ears in a few days, or she develops a fever take her to the doctor (NOT the ER, there is no need)

You give her what her doctor prescribes. One year old is too young for you to be asking strangers on the internet. For example, if she has a tummy ache you don't want to give her Pepto Bismol as it contains aspirin which can cause Reye's Syndrome in children. Not everyone knows that.

If she is pulling at her ears this indicates an ear infection.

Contact your pediatrician please.