He has a robot son and I remember a scene when the robot kid is petting there pet cat and its dead does this sound familiar to any one please help I'm dying to remember this movie thank you

The Outer Limits" Simon Says (http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0667949/)

Ohh I love this movie I think its called A.I. Artificial Intelligence. I might not be right because there are a lot of movies out there but this one is about a couple whose son isvery sick, in a coma, so they create a robot son to fill in lol

You may actually mean Not Quite Human with Alan Thicke. It was a made for TV movie in 1989

Quinn f is correct it is The Outer Limits" Simon Says
A.I. is NOT the movie. Only similarity is there is a robot boy in it and the man made him to look like his own son

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4ArNCavlM34