I have been in a marriage for the last 2 years and things have gotten bad around the house due to a EX girlfriend of mine asking me some series of questions on Facebook. These questions simple were a bunch of What If questions. An I responded back to them in a honest answer to the EX. Now before all this went down I got a message from the Ex telling me how she was doing an how here life was going. I told the wife that this happened and she said she knows cause she was friends on Facebook as well. Now the wife and Ex talked through Facebook and text messages cause they were friends but now that the wife seen that we talked about the what ifs she no longer talks to the Ex. So was this considered CHEATING or was this just a bunch of WHAT IF Questions. Oi... There was No I love you an I want to be with you in any of the conversations. I did tell her she still looked good after having 2 more kids from another marriage. That is all.

If your wife isn't mad at YOU, don't worry about it. Why haven't you asked her about this? I would, then you don't have to worry over what may be nothing on your part.