Help needed Please every one!!

I have met a very nice guy online and we have hung out for 1 month. We had very strong feelings to each other at the 1st week. We were very happy about our perfect horoscope compatibility and started having sex from the 2nd week. After a couple of times having sex with him, I noticed that he has a problem of the size and duration, which I didn't mind as his was a very nice guy in many other ways. Myself always feel insured about my body as well. I have been pretty much emotionally involved after several weeks. I have told him how I feel already.

In the Valentines Day evening(the 3rd week we met), we were together romantically, when cuddling with him, somehow I told him about my ex boyfriend (we broken up 6 month ago) called and texted me in the early evening but I didn't reply ex boyfriend. He told me that he understood how my ex boyfriend feel when being ignored as he had similar experience. Then he asked what job my ex boyfriend does, how long ago we ended, you guys still talking... I answered his questions and explained me and my ex boyfriend talked once in a while but nothing serious. He commented: my ex boyfriend had great job, and been broken up for long time (6month)... I thought that I should told me him what was happening tonight as I really just want to be with him not my ex. Nothing to hide and wanted be truthful to myself and him.

However, In that Valentines night, he told me that wanted to go out of town for a weekend sport with his family. When I heard that I felt something going wrong-he did not want to be with me. During the following weekdays, a couple time we tried to meet again but failed due to each ether's schedule difference.

On the anniversary day of 1 month we met, we texted each other during the day like not knowing today our special day. No one mentioned meeting up for the evening. I felt sad about it and found an anonymous message online the guy telling a very similar situation and he sounded sad and wanted to end things with the girl without revealing the reason ( I felt the message was very likely from him and for me). I replied this message using my email address that he knows. I explained how I felt, how much I cared about him and requested him come back to work on it together. However, no one replied my email, then I wrote another email on the same day telling that I accept this and open to be friends. Then someone repaid saying I should learn say less and do more regarding the Valentines day thing. (I hated talking to this anonymous message as like talking to a ghost. Though not 100% is from him, but I feel 98% is from him according to our situation)

That was a few days ago, since then, I haven't heard from him since the anniversary day texting. I really miss him now and don't know what else I can do to save us. Why he wanted to end ? Should I call or text him by phone ? Or should I reply that anonymous message again ? What should I tell him ? What

Your sincere comments would most appreciated.

Help needed Please every one !

I have met a very nice guy online and we have hung out for 1 month. We had very strong feelings to each other at the 1st week. We were very happy about our perfect horoscope compatibility and started having sex from the 2nd week. After a couple of times having sex with him, I noticed that he has a problem of the size and duration, which I didn't mind as his was a very nice guy in many other ways. Myself always feel insured about my body as well. I have been pretty much emotionally involved after several weeks. I have told him how I feel already.

In the Valentines Day evening(the 3rd week we met), we were together romantically, when cuddling with him, somehow I told him about my ex boyfriend (we broken up 6 month ago) called and texted me in the early evening but I didn't reply ex boyfriend. He told me that he understood how my ex boyfriend feel when being ignored as he had similar experience. Then he asked what job my ex boyfriend does, how long ago we ended, you guys still talking... I answered his questions and explained me and my ex boyfriend talked once in a while but nothing serious. He commented: my ex boyfriend had great job, and been broken up for long time (6month)... I thought that I should told me him what was happening tonight as I really just want to be with him not my ex. Nothing to hide and wanted be truthful to myself and him.

However, In that Valentines night, he told me that wanted to go out of town for a weekend sport with his family. When I heard that I felt something going wrong-he did not want to be with me. During the following weekdays, a couple time we tried to meet again but failed due to each ether's schedule difference.

On the anniversary day of 1 month we met, we texted each other during the day like not knowing today our special day. No one mentioned meeting up for the evening. I felt sad about it and found an anonymous message online the guy telling a very similar situation and he sounded sad and wanted to end things with the girl without revealing the reason ( I felt the message was very likely from him and for me). I replied this message using my email address that he knows. I explained how I felt, how much I cared about him and requested him come back to work on it together. However, no one replied my email, then I wrote another email on the same day telling that I accept this and open to be friends. Then someone repaid saying I should learn say less and do more regarding the Valentines day thing. (I hated talking to this anonymous message as like talking to a ghost. Though not 100% is from him, but I feel 98% is from him according to our situation)

That was a few days ago, since then, I haven't heard from him since the anniversary day texting. I really miss him now and don't know what else I can do to save us. Why he wanted to end ? Should I call or text him by phone ? Or should I reply that anonymous message again ? What should I tell him ? What I have done wrong?

Your sincere comments would most appreciated.

You should leave him alone. This relationship moved really fast and seems to have fizzled on his part. He walked away. Now it's time for you to do the same.

People have similar life stories. Here at AMHD itself, some stories and questions I read I feel like they are my own or from someone I've known to have gone through the same ordeal.

Dear feb2212, I appreciate you trying to be honest and frank about your past with your current guy, but sometimes it is better to leave out the details.

This guy is either very insecure or very suspicious (or a bit of both)
I do not understand:
hen someone repaid saying I should learn say less and do more regarding the Valentines day thing.

If you want him back, first of all do not make a atleast-we-can-be-friends deal, it will only give you pains. Let him miss you the way you are missing him. DO NOT go online searching and answering stories you feel are being posted by him. And DO NOT contact him. He will wonder where you disappeared, and try to eventually contact you to find out.

When he does contact you, communicate to him, ask him what is the exact reason he's lost interest.

You're not even sure that this message on this site was from the guy you've been dating. Why not talk to him instead of sending messages to people when you're not even sure it's him?

The fact is, you've only been together for a month. You seem to expect that he's with you all the time, and that's not always possible. People have work, family, friends, and they need to spend time on those as well.

I suggest that you call him, tell him how you feel, but stop being so clingy and needy.