theitalianguys
Feb 24, 2012, 08:14 PM
Hello I'm in a bit of a situation right now. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for over a year I'm 22 she's 20 things were going great. We had our fights but honestly I believe they happen. She had something's happen to her in her past and she says that she has trust issues and she has a hard time trusting me. She started going to the doctor and the doctor said its best for her to break it off with me and work on herself. She called me a couple days ago out of the blue saying that she wants to break up that she needs time to fix herself but she wants to get back with me and this would be like a month/month and a half thing.
I was pretty shocked when she said this and hurt from how random it was I gave back everything she had given me. A day goes by and she came by to give me an iPad to continue to speak to me visually. I really didn't want her over because I was trying to get over the fact that she had broken up with me. We wounde up having sex a little time passes and I ask her "if I'm willing to put my heart out there like this and wait for you and give you you're space do you plan on hooking up with other guys".. she hesitated a bit and said I do plan on getting really drunk Friday (tonight) and I'm not really sure what is going to happen. I told her she needed to leave.
A couple days go by I broke it off with her because I felt it was the right thing to do. About 3 hours later (I know pathetic) I call her back and tell her this isn't the way I want this to end and she said she didn't want this either. I ask her why don't we just go back out and take a break instead of being over completely she denies and said that this is what she needs and this is what the doctor said is best. We continued to talk for the next two days and she was the one that was contacting me I wasn't contacting her. She was telling me she misses me so much and she loves me and now she's telling me that she isn't going to be hooking up with guys.
I really don't know what think... tonight's the night she is out and I told her that if she hooks up with someone that she will lose me for good and she got upset that I said that but said okay. I feel like I'm on a losing situation on both ends either I'll break up with her and never know what would happen or she goes out tonight hooks up with someone tells me and then I just basically got strung along.
I'm really looking for some advice here maybe someone went through the same thing..
I was pretty shocked when she said this and hurt from how random it was I gave back everything she had given me. A day goes by and she came by to give me an iPad to continue to speak to me visually. I really didn't want her over because I was trying to get over the fact that she had broken up with me. We wounde up having sex a little time passes and I ask her "if I'm willing to put my heart out there like this and wait for you and give you you're space do you plan on hooking up with other guys".. she hesitated a bit and said I do plan on getting really drunk Friday (tonight) and I'm not really sure what is going to happen. I told her she needed to leave.
A couple days go by I broke it off with her because I felt it was the right thing to do. About 3 hours later (I know pathetic) I call her back and tell her this isn't the way I want this to end and she said she didn't want this either. I ask her why don't we just go back out and take a break instead of being over completely she denies and said that this is what she needs and this is what the doctor said is best. We continued to talk for the next two days and she was the one that was contacting me I wasn't contacting her. She was telling me she misses me so much and she loves me and now she's telling me that she isn't going to be hooking up with guys.
I really don't know what think... tonight's the night she is out and I told her that if she hooks up with someone that she will lose me for good and she got upset that I said that but said okay. I feel like I'm on a losing situation on both ends either I'll break up with her and never know what would happen or she goes out tonight hooks up with someone tells me and then I just basically got strung along.
I'm really looking for some advice here maybe someone went through the same thing..