I have been with this guy for a year already and were madly in love, however last year in may we were having serious issues and we were thinking about putting an end to things. My friend and I decided to go drinking and ended up getting beyond wasted. Wasted to the point where I did something stupid.. I cheated :(. It kills me so much. I didn't mean to cheat, I wasn't me at the time. I was wasted but I know he would never understand. I don't want to lose him. What should I do?

Simple tell the truth dear, It will be worse if you wait and he finds out on his own.

You can keep being miserable, haunted by guilt and shame, or come clean and take your medicine. Its for him to decide but he can do nothing, and neither can you until you clear your own conscious.

Hope you have at least stopped getting wasted, that's no excuse, but it would be a start to better behavior.

That happened to me biut I was not drunk I new what I exactly did bt told myself that I should go for a Hiv/Aids test even if we used protection.I neva told my boyfriend becoz I was nt actuali thinking straight and its nt like I luvdd the guy its that he was there for me when I was lonely and ende up dunin dumb stuff nevertheless am bck with my guy I did nt tell him anythn I blv that what happened let it be in da past and let me move on or else this could ruin my relationship and trust snc all guys are insecure.Dnt tell him I know this sund bad bt I thnk you should learn 2 forgive urslf and move on,what he does nt know wnt kill him.Bt its your choice after all

That happened to me biut i was not drunk i new wat i exactly did bt told my self that i shud go for a Hiv/Aids test even if we used protection.I neva told my bf becoz i was nt actuali thinking straight and its nt like i luvdd the guy its jst dat he was there for me wen i was lonely and ende up dunin dumb stuff nevertheless am bck with my guy i did nt tell him anythn i blv that wat happened let it be in da past nd let me move on or else this could ruin my relationship and trust snc all guys r insecure.Dnt tell him i knw dis sund bad bt i thnk u shud learn 2 forgive urslf and move on,wat he does nt knw wnt kill him.Bt its ur choice after all
Oh what a wonderful web we weave my dear, Would something you didn't know not hurt you either? Just saying