paranga
Feb 23, 2012, 06:55 AM
I have been talking to this black guy for a month now and he always says its not going to work and breaks it up. I mean we're not dating, or anything, we're just kissing that's it. He says that he really likes me and can't g.et rid of me and thinks about me a lot, but why is he not giving it a chance? Is he playing around?
One day he said he didn't want to get hurt by a women... he doesn't want to put a title on us... and still he calls me and wants to talk to me. I don't understand?
For 2 weeks I didn't talk to him at all (we work together) and every time he would see me he would say hey or what's up, I would ignore. On valentines day he called me to wish me a happy valentines day I said thank you then he asked me if I was going to go out. I said I might by myself. He says he wouldn't pay for no damn women that she has to be special! Then I was like wow that hurt. He says your disgusted by me aren't you? I said yes, so we stopped talking.
A whole week passed. He would just say hey to me at work, I would just say hey. But then this week he called me saying he missed talking to me, and we did talk. I don't hold grudges. Well yesterday he called me at 5 pm. I was at the store near his job. He said he wanted me to give him a massage. I use to be a therapist. I said sure, I met him there gave him a massage. He says "you miss me didn't you". I didn't respond. Then he says I missed you, and he tried kissing me. I said no because were just friends, so he then asked me like 3 times, then I kissed him. Then he says he had a game at 7pm an hour away from here. He ask me if I wanted to go, I said yes, then he says remember its at 7pm and we have to be there before 7pm. He plays football. I said OK.
Well I went home changed and was ready. He calls me at 6:09 pm saying that he was already late, and traffic gets bad, and that he was sorry, but he said 7 pm. I felt bad! Is he playing with me? Is he a player? Someone please help me? I don't want to get hurt by him. Should I ignore him? Tell him to leave me alone? Move on? HELP!
One day he said he didn't want to get hurt by a women... he doesn't want to put a title on us... and still he calls me and wants to talk to me. I don't understand?
For 2 weeks I didn't talk to him at all (we work together) and every time he would see me he would say hey or what's up, I would ignore. On valentines day he called me to wish me a happy valentines day I said thank you then he asked me if I was going to go out. I said I might by myself. He says he wouldn't pay for no damn women that she has to be special! Then I was like wow that hurt. He says your disgusted by me aren't you? I said yes, so we stopped talking.
A whole week passed. He would just say hey to me at work, I would just say hey. But then this week he called me saying he missed talking to me, and we did talk. I don't hold grudges. Well yesterday he called me at 5 pm. I was at the store near his job. He said he wanted me to give him a massage. I use to be a therapist. I said sure, I met him there gave him a massage. He says "you miss me didn't you". I didn't respond. Then he says I missed you, and he tried kissing me. I said no because were just friends, so he then asked me like 3 times, then I kissed him. Then he says he had a game at 7pm an hour away from here. He ask me if I wanted to go, I said yes, then he says remember its at 7pm and we have to be there before 7pm. He plays football. I said OK.
Well I went home changed and was ready. He calls me at 6:09 pm saying that he was already late, and traffic gets bad, and that he was sorry, but he said 7 pm. I felt bad! Is he playing with me? Is he a player? Someone please help me? I don't want to get hurt by him. Should I ignore him? Tell him to leave me alone? Move on? HELP!