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braden444
Feb 19, 2012, 08:03 PM
Hello my name is Braden I'm trying to find my dad I haven't seen since I was 2 I'm almost 15 now I've heard different story's about him but I want to hear his side so please help me find my dad his name is Raymond and I tried searching for him and his last listed address is from north CA and I live in Washington state so if any one has seen heard from or is willing to help find him I would so very much appreciate it thank you

Alty
Feb 19, 2012, 08:35 PM
http://www.google.ca/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=Raymond+Jeffrey+Lewandowski&source=web&cd=1&ved=0CCEQFjAA&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.askmehelpdesk.com%2Fmissing-persons%2Fhusband-missing-387092.html&ei=Tb9BT5r_Jobk0QGPhPCnBw&usg=AFQjCNH72hoRpeJPU7zgwV5T8CdvUCbmrg&cad=rja

Looks like you and your mom have been searching for him for a long time.

It doesn't look like we had any luck back in 2009. I don't know what help we'll be now.

Have you considered hiring a private investigator?

braden444
Feb 20, 2012, 03:35 PM
Well kind of see my family is very poor and is barlie paying the bills like many familys nowadays and don't have close to unuff money to hire a privet investigator and yes my mom is looking for my dad as well but I just need to know where he is so I can at least talk to him

Alty
Feb 20, 2012, 05:48 PM
I really wish we could help. I did a search but had the same luck you had.

Maybe someone will come along that can be of more help, but finding someone is not as easy as it seems, so don't get your hopes up.

braden444
Feb 20, 2012, 06:20 PM
I found him here http://www.intelius.com/results.php?ReportType=1&formname=name&qf=Raymond&qmi=&qn=Lewandowski&qcs=WA&focusfirst=1 he's the fourth one down but I don't have a credit card and can't pay the 95 cents for the full recoerd so I don't know what to do

JudyKayTee
Feb 21, 2012, 10:14 AM
You need someone with sources, not just an ability to search the Internet.

The lka (last known address) for Raymond J Lewandowski, dob (date of birth) 8/24/63, is 14974 Hayland St, La Puente, CA 91744, tele: 626/917-5030. It appears he is married to Diana J Lewandowski, age 50.

In 2009 your mother was searching for him in order to obtain a divorce. I assume she found him because it appears he has remarried? Or am I missing something?

(I cannot open the site you posted.)

braden444
Feb 21, 2012, 04:21 PM
OK well you don't have the right guy my moms name is angela dee adams lewandowski and my dad was born in January and that's all I know except I think he's 43

JudyKayTee
Feb 21, 2012, 07:36 PM
Then why don't you post what YOU found so that I can open it?

I find NO Raymond J Lewandowski, age 43, born in January, in California - and I am using private sources.

I'm also not terribly sure he didn't divorce your mother.

Is his birth date January 7, 1969 - if so, he does NOT live in California.

Why the unhelpful rating when I was really searching hard for you?

Alty
Feb 21, 2012, 07:45 PM
ok well you dont have the right guy my moms name is angela dee adams lewandowski and my dad was born in january and thats all i know exept i think he's 43

I have to ask. Are you wanting someone to pay the fee for the site you posted which we can't access?

That seems to be the only info you have, and it's not a reliable source.

Judy is good at what she does. She's the best you could ask for. If she can't find him, or you think that the person she found isn't him, then there's really nothing further that anyone can do. You already got the best of the best on this site when it comes to finding a missing person.

Unless you have more info you're pretty much at a dead end.

I don't know if you're the one that gave Judy a disagree, but if you are, why? She did what she could with the info you gave. You gave limited info, which isn't your fault, but still, you can't expect people to work magic.

Even with a full name, date of birth, place of birth, and more, it's still very hard to find a missing person. We can't work miracles. You have to accept that, and if you gave Judy the disagree then you really do owe her an apology. She tried to help, and giving a disagree is like slapping someone in the face. It doesn't prompt others to step in and assist you, and you're very lucky that she's still willing to help.