I have this married man that really wants to be with me... We have been talking/texting for almost 6 months now, we have kissed but that is all... I am almost 27 and he is 39... When we 1st met he told me that he would leave his wife for me (we worked together)... I never paid him any attention back when we 1st met because I was happy in my relationship, but in the last year things between me and my kids dad and my boyfriend of almost 7 years just isn't going the way they used to.. I hate having sex with him, I don't want to spend anytime with him... I have been talking to a few other guys mostly from my past (that are single) but for some reason this married man is ALWAYS on my mind... I try to tell him that my boyfriend is very overprotected of me because he thinks I have cheated on him in the past(and I haven't until 3 weeks ago when I kissed the married man) and still cheating on him... Which I guess I kind of am now but I feel like he has pushed me to it... On to my married man he has been married to his wife for almost 15 years now.. I have actually seen them in public and they really don't have a good relationship, where I seen them it was a restaurant and they argued while they were in there and I was on the opposite side and heard them... However the only reason he tells me he won't leave her is because he will loose everything he has worked for in the last 20 years... (He makes over 2k a week) They also have a disabled son together too.. I feel bad about even wanting to be with this man, but I know he doesn't love his wife anymore... Please give me some advice!

If he is willing to leave his wife for you, one day he will be willing to leave you for some other gal... don't you think?

Couldn't have said it better myself "Silver Lining"! This scumbag wants his cake and to eat it to! You need to end it with him NOW! If he did it to her, he will do it to you!