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lovebug143
Feb 16, 2012, 09:00 PM
I've been dating this guy for almost a year, and he and my best friend, (who's like a sister to me), were friends.
My boyfriend saw that my best friend was draging and hitting me everywhere we went, then one day she really badly hurt me, and I walked up to my boyfriend crying. He told her to stop, then she started cussing me out, and she hated me.
Now we're cool, but now I can't hang out really with my boyfriend because she won't let me, and I think that he is starting to feel vary unloved and I love him with all my heart. I don't want our relationship to end, but I don't know what to do .
Fr_Chuck
Feb 16, 2012, 10:37 PM
Who was hurting you, the boyfriend?
Next sorry a best friend can not stop you from doing anything if you want to.
lovebug143
Feb 18, 2012, 03:03 PM
Its just like I don't know what to do anymore because all me friends are trying to get us to break up but I love him with all my heart so I don't really know what to do anymore
aerahrtlu
Feb 20, 2012, 07:56 AM
I hope I read this right. Your "best friend" beats on you, not your boyfriend?
Girl, you are crazy!
Your "friendship" with your "best friend" is an abusive one and you need to LEAVE HER BUTT YESTERDAY! There is NO excuse for her to be beating up on you physically, mentally, and/or emotionally.
It is not healthy for you to be "sisters" with someone who treats you like that. She's possessive, abusive, and toxic. Trust me, it's not worth it. Please know, she's not worth it.
If your man was treating you like she is, would you stick around? Everyone would be telling you to get out. NOW. It's no different with her.
So please. Get. Out. Now.
Homegirl 50
Feb 20, 2012, 12:52 PM
Who is hitting you, your best friend or your boy friend? Remove yourself from whoever is doing it. That is abuse.
lovebug143
Feb 20, 2012, 10:12 PM
Yes you guys are right my friend is the one hitting me and now because I kicked her out my life she is ****ing it up she is trying to get us to break up and she told my dad I was pregnet and all this **** so now I'm really scared and don't know what to do ?
I wish
Feb 22, 2012, 01:20 PM
How old are you guys?
Homegirl 50
Feb 22, 2012, 03:03 PM
Why are you afraid of this person? Who is this person that she tells you who to date and what's up with the guy that he puts up with this.
How old are you guys?