My name is mandie and I am 15 and Yesterday was valentines day and we broke up before vday and it was also me and his anniversary. A couple days ago my friend was coming over to my house and he doesn't like her so he got mad at me and he treated me and her like crap and told me that we were doing lesbian stuff but we wernt because I'm not like that and through out our first year together he became controlling and a little aggressive. I will admit I was controlling at times but half the time it was because he controlled me and I knew I shouldn't have done it back :( but he doesn't let me wear what I want to wear to school unless he says yes when I ask, when we argue he sometmes gets aggressive, he made me delete my fb, made me delte my guy friends number from my phone I love him so much but why does he do this? There's so much more that I don't want to talk about but can I please have help? Or if uour going through same problem u can tlk to me I will help

Leave him. You don't have to put up with all this crap. Only a loser of a guy can make his girlfriend into a puppet.

He has issues, and he is using you to satisfy his ego.

3 years of all this nonsense? Girl you deserve much better, you are worth much more. Don't go back to him.

Wait for the right kind of guy to come around who treats you well. Also dear, you are just 15. There's so much more left to be done in your life. Enjoy your single-hood while you can!! And yeah once again, stay away from this jerk.

All the best :)