My boyfriend and I are absolutely perfect. I am super happy with him. The other night he was looking on my phone and saw my viewing history an all the porn I had been watching. A huge fight began. I can completely understand his points: he feels as if he doesn't satisfy me am that I don't think about him while having sex. He can't get these thoughts out of his mind. I have been honest with him about it bow that he found out and I haven't tried to defend myself. This is going to ruin us and I can't let that happen. What do I do? Please help.

Well, to be honest vices do have their consequences. Nobody can say this is or isn't going to ruin your relationship. It very well could. But if the relationship is as perfect as you describe, isn't that worth fighting for? What is more important, pornography, or an actual relationship? You probably going to have to choose between one or the other here.

Tell him all these things you are asking here, that is called trust in relations.
Tell him you are addicted to porn and ask him to help about it.