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Nicole112
Feb 12, 2012, 10:59 AM
Me and this boy has been best friends for about a year, he has had loads of girlfriends which didn't bother me until my friends started saying "you two would make a really good couple" and then I realized I had feelings for him. He has a girlfriend but they are fighting a lot and when you talk about her too me I don't know what to say just in case I break them up... Please help

Surfergirl89
Feb 12, 2012, 02:58 PM
I had the same thing happen to me. How old are you?

Silver Lining
Mar 1, 2012, 12:39 AM
Hey sweety,, its OK to have feelings for your best friend,, this is very very similar to my story,, my bes fren had feelings for me, while I had a boyfriend,, now, m married to my best firend,, its 5 n half years of marriage (exactly yesterday) and I still consider him to be my best friend 1st...

Hide your feelings for a while,, don't break his relation with his present gal. if it's meant to be, it's meant to be. If he breaks up with her, DON'T make a move,, wait for the right time to tell himm how you feel about him, and that you'l understand if he doesn't feel the same. Don't wait for an answer. Move out immediately after you tell him how you feel. Give him some time to think and let him come back to u. do not contact him until he calls...

If he is your best fren, m sure things will work out...

Silver Lining
Mar 1, 2012, 12:42 AM
Hey sweety,, its OK to have feelings for your best friend,, this is very very similar to my story,, my bes fren had feelings for me, while I had a boyfriend,, now, m married to my best firend,, its 5 n half years of marriage (exactly yesterday) and I still consider him to be my best friend 1st...

Hide your feelings for a while,, don't break his relation with his present gal. if it's meant to be, it's meant to be. If he breaks up with her, DON'T make a move,, wait for the right time to tell himm how you feel about him, and that you'l understand if he doesn't feel the same. Don't wait for an answer. Move out immediately after you tell him how you feel. Give him some time to think and let him come back to u. do not contact him until he calls...

If he is your best fren, m sure things will work out...

Silver Lining
Mar 1, 2012, 12:43 AM
Hey sweety,, its OK to have feelings for your best friend,, this is very very similar to my story,, my bes fren had feelings for me, while I had a boyfriend,, now, m married to my best firend,, its 5 n half years of marriage (exactly yesterday) and I still consider him to be my best friend 1st...

Hide your feelings for a while,, don't break his relation with his present gal. if it's meant to be, it's meant to be. If he breaks up with her, DON'T make a move,, wait for the right time to tell himm how you feel about him, and that you'l understand if he doesn't feel the same. Don't wait for an answer. Move out immediately after you tell him how you feel. Give him some time to think and let him come back to u. do not contact him until he calls...

If he is your best fren, m sure things will work out...