I am a female who experiences no pleasure during sex or oral sex. I only get aroused during kissing or touching before sex happens. I get pleasure from masturbation. I always fake like I am enjoying myself during sex, but I feel no arousal. Is there something wrong with me?:( I want to feel the same pleasure everyone else feels during sex. PLEASE HELP!!

I feel this relates VERY strongly to the post about you being involved with a man who is living with another woman. You are the mistress in that relationship, the two's company and three is a crowd and you are the number three.

You cannot feel free to express your deepest feelings because you know that this man goes right back to his live in girlfriend. You know you do not have his heart. You have his body for a short while, but nothing long lasting. Nothing to hold onto, nothing worth falling in love for. You are being used for his pleasure and since you are not getting yours, it does not look like he is doing much to help you out.

Please get some real life counseling on this. Your hidden fears about this behind closed doors relationship can well cause some of your sexual dysfunction.

I don't mean to offened you but maybe guys don't stimulate you, maybe it is wemon. I am sorry if this angers you but that might be the truth. I'd like to ask if a kiss is what stimulates you then to reply to my post please at this link

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/all-ladies-out-there-what-makes-good-kiss-59816.html

Hard to get total satisfaction when you aren't with some one who is totally into you. Seek professional help.

I thought I was d only one with such a problem.I understand what you are going through.please lets pray Its only The Almighty who can help us.