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Feb 10, 2012, 10:12 PM
For about 3 weeks, I've started hanging out with a guy. Things were great up until a week ago, he was completely into me, texted me all the time. Said good night and good morning every day.. I thought I finally found a good guy and feeling very happy about this. I haven't quite fully opened up to him (he makes me shy still so I can't fully be myself) I'm trying my best though but I'm worried I'm slowly screwing myself over by being too quiet and not attempting to connect... And now I am getting a different vibe from him and his texting is slowing down compared to the first 2 weeks of hanging out.
Nevertheless he still tells me everyday that he's into me, and compliments me... It's just little things I'm noticing like his texting has slowed down (I don't text him all the time either for fear of coming across as needy and desperate) but I do notice his lack of texting. I was careful of not letting anything going to far physically too so I don't think that's the problem... I just want to know what everyone though of this? Am I over analyzing?
I try tell myself everyday to settle down and that we're still getting to know each other but it seems like before he was so eager to talk to me all the time and I was flattered and always texted back.. This all changed when he drove up 7 hours to spend the weekend with me, ever since he left.. Things have been weird, and I miss how affectionate he was for the first two weeks and this week is mainly lacking in us communicating like before.
So what I want to know basically is he still into me as much as he was earlier on?
Nevertheless he still tells me everyday that he's into me, and compliments me... It's just little things I'm noticing like his texting has slowed down (I don't text him all the time either for fear of coming across as needy and desperate) but I do notice his lack of texting. I was careful of not letting anything going to far physically too so I don't think that's the problem... I just want to know what everyone though of this? Am I over analyzing?
I try tell myself everyday to settle down and that we're still getting to know each other but it seems like before he was so eager to talk to me all the time and I was flattered and always texted back.. This all changed when he drove up 7 hours to spend the weekend with me, ever since he left.. Things have been weird, and I miss how affectionate he was for the first two weeks and this week is mainly lacking in us communicating like before.
So what I want to know basically is he still into me as much as he was earlier on?