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unluckybro
Feb 10, 2012, 02:38 AM
I've been with this girl for two years. When we first started going out everyone wanted what we had, and no one wanted us together. There was always drama about it. Then I cut my hair to get a job, and she got a job, and we stopped having sex because it hurt. And she had to go to the doctors to get pills because of diabetic complications, but she won't go, because I'm asking her to. And when I stopped for a while, and brought it up again, she said she doesn't want to. So she's not going, and I'm being selfish for wanting to have sex.

And she stopped hanging out with all guys, and talking to all guys, when we got real serious and wanted me to stop hanging out with, and talking to all girls. And I didn't care I actually loved it, because it made me realize wow she's a keeper.

I love her with all my heart and she always had my passwords to everything, and gave me all hers when I never used them, but she stalked everything of mine. I told her I didn't want them because I trust her and she said she wanted me to have it, and check her phone because it makes her feel like I care that much. But I never did until she started not wanting sex ever and seeming like everything was an excuse not to see me.

Now I haven't seen her in a month. We haven't had sex in about 5 months. Apparently her dad doesn't want me there and before we still saw each other whether it was when I was supposed to be at school, or something else, I snuck over. Now she won't allow it. Its his house, his rules.

She's 18. Always did what she wanted, even when we were 16. Now daddy says no, its no. When it never mattered before and I even caught her flirting with guys making plans but they never happened. Telling guys she likes them. Told other people that she liked people. When I caught her by going on her account on Facebook one time after being able to for 2 years, and I was right for the three months. I was saying she was lying to me about talking to guys, about the plans she made, and I actually ended it. Drove her home made her take all her **** home and when we got there she balled said she was sorry. Said she thought I changed when only my hair, people not caring if we were together anymore, and us having jobs changed.

I want to go get my ****, say its over, leave, and never look back. But the sucker in me wants to offer an ultimatum, either she admits everything, and even tells me the **** she doesn't know I know she's lying about, and gives me proof or its over but I don't know what to do

talaniman
Feb 10, 2012, 03:26 PM
Dude, stop the game playing and just be honest, and demand honesty, or just leave and let it go! If you can't be straight up and honest, then I fail to see the point!