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BriNicole
Feb 8, 2012, 06:38 PM
I may have a possibility of being pregnant. The guy who may have gotten me pregnant is just a friend. We were never in a relationship and he wanted to take my virginity. I agreed and went with it because he is my friend of about 6 years and he said he would rather lose it to me and me lose it to him then to some jerk who will probably break my heart. We had sex and I may possibly be pregnant. How do I go about telling him? I took the Plan B pill just in case. I took it on the 4th day when it has a very small chance of working. I have missed my period and I am now experiencing pregnancy symptoms. I am almost completely positive I am. I can't take the test accurately until next month. How do I go about telling my guy friend that I might possibly be pregnant. I am extremely scared to.

mamaof2boys
Feb 8, 2012, 06:44 PM
Why can you not take the test correctly? I wouldn't tell him you're pregnant until a test or Dr says you are.

BriNicole
Feb 8, 2012, 06:52 PM
Its not that I can't take it correctly it's that it won't be accurate. I have been reading and it says it will be accurate right before you start your period. I was supposed to start 3 days ago.
Should I tell him that I missed my period and I might be so he can help me deal with the stress or just leave it alone and let him relax?

mamaof2boys
Feb 8, 2012, 07:39 PM
If you have already missed your period then you can take a test now using first morning urine.

Alty
Feb 8, 2012, 07:44 PM
You had sex with this boy. That's the most intimate thing you can do with another human being, but you can't talk to him?

You both took a big risk. You had sex, and sex = pregnancy. If you weren't mature enough to accept the consequences, you shouldn't have had sex. I know that's harsh, but that's how it is.

First find out if you're pregnant. Guessing isn't okay.

If you are, then you have to be an adult about it, because being a mom means you'll have to grow up very quickly. Being pregnant means you will be a mom, very soon. Time to grow up. That's what playing adult games means. You have to be an adult, and fast.

Good luck.

Fr_Chuck
Feb 8, 2012, 07:48 PM
Agree you misunderstand the instructions, How old are you, it is accurate anytime after you have missed your period.

Although false negative readings can happen after period. Well at least it is from a friend, but now if you are pregnant, they will be liable for child support for 18 plus years. I wonder if that is something they had in mind.

But you can do it anytime now with the first urine of the morning.

But I agree, sorry, no time to be silly no time to act like a kid now, you have to able to talk to the boy, talk to parents if needed and be responsible for what you did.

BriNicole
Feb 9, 2012, 06:41 PM
I will get a test sometime this week. I am 14. I can talk to him, I talk to him everyday, I just am going to have a hard time telling him there is a possibility that I could be pregnant. I know that when you play an adult game you have to deal with adult responsibilities. I am fully aware of the responsibilities ahead of me if I am. I am going to call him and possibly get him to drive me to the clinic. I hope I'm not. Thank you for all the help.