How many days before it is consider

Please review this sticky:

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/family-law/child-abandonment-read-first-364259.html

If you have any further questions feel free to ask,

Yes, in most places it is not what people think it is, and not something you use except as a reason to go back to family court.

If you give the facts of what is happening, we can discuss it