My daughter who is now 20. At 17 in her 11 grade she messed up every thing due to one boy. She told us that is first and last time now only study. SAgain after that in last few years no. Of long phone calles on going, pic with some other boy too. She is saying I am not in contact it was just meeting. I put her on pills because she was anemic and in college. Do you think she had sex so far with some one or I am just afraid. Her birth place is USA and we are Indian. No sex before you are sure you will marry that person.

Many if not perhaps the majority of 20 year olds are sexually active in the US. While I may not approve, it is just a part of life here. Girls ( as you can read on here) as young as 12 start having sex. Some men and women go out and have sex with people they don't even know or know well on first date. There is not way to tell, you have to just believe her.