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camryn101
Feb 15, 2007, 07:10 PM
Okay, so, there's this guy in my high school and he always makes sexual comments about me to other people and sometimes even to my face! Sometimes, I see him staring at my behind and tells his friends he's going to 'tap that' before graduation. He never actually assaulted me and I guess he's just having fun... but what should I do? If I tell the school, I'm a snitch, if I do nothing, I get humilliated. Help?
Camryn. :)
p-s, sorry for any incorrect words, spelling was never my thing.

camryn101
Feb 15, 2007, 07:20 PM
Someone please help me. I'm DYING here! :(
Camryn :S

AKaeTrue
Feb 15, 2007, 07:55 PM
Just turn to the guy and say "I know you want it, but you will never tap this". There will probably be some commotion and hooting and stuff (his friends making fun of him), but you will have stood your ground. You can say it with a laugh to make it easier on yourself. If he says "yes I will" or "we'll see" just say something like "That's right, you will see that you will not be tapping this"...
I know this may not be much help, but it's what I did in high school when I'd receive rude complements like that. I viewed it differently perhaps to where it didn't bother me... I don't think this guy would be telling his friends that if he didn't find you attractive.
This may not be the right thing for you, but it worked for me...
I wish you the best...
Kae

1992DodgeSpirit
Mar 5, 2007, 10:36 PM
Tell on him for sexual harassment, get him to stop his crap, cause he isn't going to stop unless you stand up for yourself and let them know that you want it stopped