My girlfriend of 12 years won't talk to me, she said she hasint been happy in the relationship for 18 months or so, I had to move out and return hope 125 miles away, we have 2 kids together. I have tried everything, but she is refusing to give us another chance, I know why she wasint happy and I'm making changes to sort that out, although she knows that it seams to make no diffence to her.

Also not seeing the kids is killing me, I haven't seen them in nearly 3 months. I have spoke to her recently and she is moving houses and she said that after she's moved, she will bring the kids to my mums where I can see them, that's great as I miss them so much. I need advise as to what to do, as I am still in love with her.

Be a good father, go see your kids, get along with their mother. As far as a relationship goes, she has state the way she feels, respect her decision and start to move on.

Sorry man tough situation your in... most women never leave unless they have another crutch to lean on... hope all is well... if you ignore her it will drive her crazy so do it and give her lots of space 3months send her flowers with an apology.. might help

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