My finance ended our 3 year relation, I am devastated and shocked we were making so many plans for a futre together.He gave me 3 excuses, one being I packed my stuff out of his apartment twice, which we put in the past and moved forward.Second he said because I didn't want to visit his mom more often as she lives three hours away, and third I told him I would not meet one of his daughters who lives out of state.She has always treated him very bad, and I heard too many conversations with the two of them and they alawys argued.He has moved back with his mom and it is her birthday next weekend.I was wondering if I should visit her for her birthday even though my finance put the no contact rule in effect.I texed him yesterday and he replied even though he said he would never have contact with me again?

No ex is over. Never think about stuff which has no future. You don't ask how to go in any town on which you are not going at this moment.