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Insha_Z
Feb 1, 2012, 01:18 PM
Well I'm In a relationship with this guy and recently have talked about everything (almost). And can't pick up on what else to talk about . When I do then he starts talking about seeing each other In real etc which sort of pisses me of seems as I don't want to .

He's more of a 18 yr old and acts it though but he flirts with other girls on a friendly way and chats my best friends up by talking about there future Instead of mine and he's <God knows what he's saying behind my back to other pretty girls >

.. When ever he talks to me its all ways about seeing each other in real and stuff like that.. How shall I keep he's mind of that, also I'm always getting bullied by my ex (who still likes me) In school and can't concentrate on our relationship...
He's more of a challenge and I can't keep up seems as I lost my love but Its down there I don't know about him which he keeps on saying I love you And so do I But don't know what happens sometimes.. He be's on Fb 24:7 And we've done nighters...

To be very honest he's been the longest boyfriend I had and does care for me . He's 14 and I'm 16 I know its wrong but still... I suffer from brain tumor but I want to live my life .

I know this is random but Please try and help

berta146
Feb 1, 2012, 02:01 PM
Do not meet anyone from the internet your far too young I would stop writing to this person its very easy to pretend to be someone else online and they are the ones who want to meet it sounds like he feels he has your trust so now he wants to meet and that's all he is thinking about which really concerns me forget about him please as for your boyfriend at school you never said why you finished if he really cared then he wouldn't bully you don't be pushed into anything you don't want to do as for living life yoou will met other boys and have relationships you can still live your life without having a boyfriend go out with friends and really enjoy your life hang out in groups girly nights are some of my best memorys of when I was younger not the boyfriends they always ended bad if this boy really likes you from school then he will wait not bully you into anything and you will enjoy his company

Fr_Chuck
Feb 1, 2012, 02:13 PM
The 18 year old wants a REAL girlfriend, not a chat friend on email or Facebook. So if you are not ready or do not want that, break it off with him, since that is where he wants to go. He needs to move it along. And that is it, all online dating has to move to real life at some point.

Also on the old boyfriend, just stop chatting with him, unfriend him on Facebook, block him on Facebook but move on

mmresd
Feb 1, 2012, 05:55 PM
He says he is 16 and seems like a nice guy. But if you haven't met him, he could be a 50 year old man pedophile. Stay away, do not agree to meeting with him, in fact, you don't actually know him at all. You need to stop talking to this guy and meet real people. This could be dangerous, I wouldn't run the risk. If he actually IS the 16 year old guy it seems like he wants to meet you to get inside of you, and not only you, but also your friends and anyone else who is willing.