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emofreak2
Feb 1, 2012, 02:49 AM
My thirteen year old friend is pregnant with a little boy.she refuses to get an abortion and her boyfriend is trying to convince her to run away with him.she also thinks she might be bisexual I'm only thirteen also what do I do.what does she do.

indya
Feb 1, 2012, 04:25 AM
It's a good thing that she does not want to get an abortion. Don't force her to abort her child. Let the question of her sexual orientation rest for a while.

How old is this boyfriend of her's? How many weeks pregnant is she?

Eloping is not an option. Specially when the girl is pregnant and underage.

There are a lot of organizations that will help her in her situation. What she has to do is find such an organization/help group near her locality, and what you have to do is love her and care for her.

indya
Feb 1, 2012, 04:32 AM
And in the mean time try this link

http://www.thehelpline.org/

ScottGem
Feb 1, 2012, 04:40 AM
It is HER decision and her decision alone whether to get an abortion. But she needs to have all the facts. One of those facts is that a 13 year old's body may not be sufficiently developed to go through a full term pregnancy. Doing so could pose a health risk to her and the child. Please have her make an informed decision, not take the advice of those with religious prejudices.

Running away is not the answer. They are too young to fend for themselves. The likelihood is that they will wind up on the street or worse. She needs to talk to her parents. Have them take her to a doctor and get all the facts.