A guy in my friends bar liked me very much and showed he wanted to start dating me he yougoslavian and I'm Maltese,anyway he took me to his flat to see it and I see a picture of him with a woman in a frame and then he said what's wrong , and he said oh you aare seeing me with my sister? And I ran out of the apartment because I don't want a committed guy, now he is in his country for two weeks

What do I think what is? The photo? I have no idea.

You met him and went to his flat? Or you were dating him and went to his flat?

Or something else?

You're no stranger to the dating game. You've already said you have two children and have never married. Why does this relationship confuse you?

Why would you not believe him when he said it was his sister? Had anything been said that lead you to believe he didn't have any sisters or brothers?

Is there another reason why you would get upset at a picture of him and his sister?

Has he tried to contact you since you ran out? Have you talked to him?

Quite frankly, if you aren't willing to take him at his word about the picture, then you probably do not need to start dating him. Even going out to a movie or hanging out in a bar means that you are trusting that he is who he is and what he says his marital/relationship status is.

You either walk away and date only people who you know all of their friends and family or you give him some trust and talk to him about his family.

I think you should just leave him alone, since most likely he would not want to have anything to do with you anyway. If that was his sister you insulted his honesty and acted very childish.

Also if this was a first date, do you normally go to their home for a first date> That would give most guys the wrong idea what was going to happen. ( or maybe that was what was gong to happen? )

Hi there thank you all for your help, I went to his flat because he wanted to show it to me because it was not in good condition and that's why I went but my friend who owns the bar told me to be careful from him because he might be attached, soon I will find out the truth from he when he comes back ,

hi there thankyou all for your help, I went to his flat because he wanted to show it to me because it was not in good condition and thats why I went but my friend who owns the bar told me to be careful from him because he might be attached, soon I will find out the truth from he when he comes back ,
Finding out from him is your best option.

Keep an open mind, but do be careful. Good luck.

To all, it was his wife... my friend did some research for me..