TRISHA9
Dec 25, 2011, 08:01 PM
I had an 8 year relationship with someone I believed was my soul mate. He never paid for dinner, never bought me flowers or special gifts. He has a fishing boat (just a basic tinnie) - I asked him one day if we could take it out to go fishing. His reply was that if I paid for half the fuel. Naturally, we did not go fishing. I provided food and very special dinners at my house for 8 years. He loved my cooking but never contributed a bottle of wine for dinner, ever. If we went to the movies, he never paid for me. The times we had dinner "out" were through my membership of clubs with "buy one get one free" deals.
We used to go to a place he had down the coast, I provided all of the food and worked physically hard on his property. He told me in November "someone had come back into his life", the wife who divorced him 30 years ago.
His ex and her husband rented a house owned by my ex. His ex wife's marriage broke up. He didn't tell me. Now they are back together again because he says "they missed out on so much of our 2 daughter's growing up and now they have grandchildren they will recapture that stuff they missed out on".
I see it as him now able to sell the property his ex and her husband lived in. He will have more money. He now has his ex living with him. God, I feel used and abused emotionally and financially. Any advice.
We used to go to a place he had down the coast, I provided all of the food and worked physically hard on his property. He told me in November "someone had come back into his life", the wife who divorced him 30 years ago.
His ex and her husband rented a house owned by my ex. His ex wife's marriage broke up. He didn't tell me. Now they are back together again because he says "they missed out on so much of our 2 daughter's growing up and now they have grandchildren they will recapture that stuff they missed out on".
I see it as him now able to sell the property his ex and her husband lived in. He will have more money. He now has his ex living with him. God, I feel used and abused emotionally and financially. Any advice.