Heids24
Feb 15, 2007, 10:16 AM
Hello all,
First off, I apologize for the length but a lot has happened. This is in two parts due to character limits set by the forum. It's a fascinating story so please don't let the length deter you. What can a person do when a P.O. clearly has it out to get him and bends the rules in her favor to justify her actions? I am posting in regards to my brother who is having tremendous difficulty with his probation officer. It's gotten to the point where I'm questioning whether the treatment he is receiving is equitable and ethical. But I'll give some background information first.
Background Info
First off, my brother is a good person at heart. However, he has clinically been diagnosed with Attention Deficit Disorder from young on and usually acts before thinking about the consequences of the actions. My brother's initial trouble started about 5 years ago when he was in his early 20's and he met a girl in an online chatroom who was under the age of 18. He did not know she was under 18 as she lied about her age (she admitted this). The case went to court. During the trial we came to find out that she has a record of seeking out "older" men on the internet because she has been to court for this before (as the victim of course). Apparently she has her own set of issues which might be why the judge decided to put my brother on probation for 3 years rather than any jail time. Assuming he makes it through the probation, he would receive nothing more than a misdemeanor. If his probation is revoked, he goes to jail and the charge is elevated to a criminal offense and he will be classified as a sexual predator. I want to interject here that even though she lied about her age, I am very ashamed and upset with my brother's judgment regarding this issue and in no way condone what he had done.
Incident 1
Unfortunately my brother initially didn't take is probation very seriously. His rules included items such as no alcohol, no internet, and no dating or sex without permission. He still went on the internet and met another girl - this time he made sure the girl was of age and even checked her ID - she was 19. They met and I think became sexually involved in some capacity. The girls father was upset with her for meeting a guy on the internet and decided researched my brother's name on the public court access website. Well of course he found out what he was on probation for and promptly called the cops. The probation officer had my brother arrested and immediately revoked is probation. She cited rule violation and deemed him a threat to society because the girl "looked young" and turned out to be bipolar. She actually held the fact that the girl was bipolar against my brother - as if he was able to diagnose her mental condition. My brother spent one full year in jail. Since he violated is rules, I expected him to be revoked. But I did find the comments in which the P.O. framed her statement as being "a threat to society" odd - that the girl "looked young" and the fact that she was bipolar.
Incident 2
My brother served his year in jail. He was on the Huber side for his last 3 months of his sentence, meaning he could leave jail for work. They also allowed him some extra time to look for apartments so he had somewhere to go once he left jail. In addition, he had to meet the P.O. at the probation office for a weekly meeting. After one of his meetings (three weeks prior to his release from jail), he had 30 minutes of unaccounted time from when he left the P.O. office to when he returned to jail. He was in the parking lot of the P.O. office the entire time and was seen there by his P.O. His best friend met him there to give him updates on the apartment hunting situation because he had a couple of good candidates to look into. My brother gave his friend instructions on which apartments to look further into and then when back to jail for the day. The P.O. stated that he did not have permission to have his friend show up and put him in lock-down for the last three weeks of his sentence. Because of this, he lost his job and was not able to secure an apartment prior to leaving jail.
Incident 3
My brother finally gets out of jail. He has a strong commitment not to violate any rules because he didn't deal with being in jail all that well. He frequently would break down sobbing and became very apologetic to his family for the trouble he has put them through. He was released on a Sunday morning with no where to go since three of his last four weeks were spent in lock-down. He asked is P.O. where he could stay while he searched for apartments and she told him the local Salvation Army. My mother called the Salvation Army on the day of his release and inquired about bringing my brother there, but the denied him because of his original conviction and the fact that they have children staying there. (Again, I can't stress enough that he is NOT a predator, but has been lumped into a stereo type because our system currently doesn't differentiate severity, however I do understand the Salvation Army's position and why they denied him). Now my brother is scared because he has no where to go and doesn't want to stay anywhere without approval. We decided his next step should be to call his P.O. but there was no answer. We considered all options. His entire family lives in an adjacent county and he's not allowed to move between counties without approval. His only good friend lives a few blocks away, but the P.O. has banned his friend from staying at the same place because back in high school they were drinking buddies. He could stay in his car until he gets a hold of his P.O. but it's the dead of winter and was 5 degrees F outside which is an inhumane expectation. Plus staying in a car could put him in an unapproved area of the city with a high population of children. As a family we decided that he should stay by his friend's house (who has no internet access and no alcohol in the house - we verified this by touring his apartment). We also had him call his P.O. again and leave a message stating that the Salvation Army won't take him and he has no where to go for the night so he'll be by his friend for the night at xxx address and will await her call back to instruct him where to go for the next night. The very next morning, the police were knocking on the door to arrest him. She sent him back to jail for violating the rule that he stayed at an unapproved place, EVEN THOUGH THE PLACE SHE TOLD HIM TO STAY AT WOULDN'T TAKE HIM (and she should have been fully aware that the Salvation Army wouldn't take him with his background). She took no responsibility, denied that my brother had called to inform her (even though we have phone records and two witnesses) and stated he's intentionally violating his rules again. This caused him to lose another job, which he only was able to hold for one week as he was forced to spend two weeks in jail prior to her releasing him.
Please See the Part 2 Threat for the rest of the story!
First off, I apologize for the length but a lot has happened. This is in two parts due to character limits set by the forum. It's a fascinating story so please don't let the length deter you. What can a person do when a P.O. clearly has it out to get him and bends the rules in her favor to justify her actions? I am posting in regards to my brother who is having tremendous difficulty with his probation officer. It's gotten to the point where I'm questioning whether the treatment he is receiving is equitable and ethical. But I'll give some background information first.
Background Info
First off, my brother is a good person at heart. However, he has clinically been diagnosed with Attention Deficit Disorder from young on and usually acts before thinking about the consequences of the actions. My brother's initial trouble started about 5 years ago when he was in his early 20's and he met a girl in an online chatroom who was under the age of 18. He did not know she was under 18 as she lied about her age (she admitted this). The case went to court. During the trial we came to find out that she has a record of seeking out "older" men on the internet because she has been to court for this before (as the victim of course). Apparently she has her own set of issues which might be why the judge decided to put my brother on probation for 3 years rather than any jail time. Assuming he makes it through the probation, he would receive nothing more than a misdemeanor. If his probation is revoked, he goes to jail and the charge is elevated to a criminal offense and he will be classified as a sexual predator. I want to interject here that even though she lied about her age, I am very ashamed and upset with my brother's judgment regarding this issue and in no way condone what he had done.
Incident 1
Unfortunately my brother initially didn't take is probation very seriously. His rules included items such as no alcohol, no internet, and no dating or sex without permission. He still went on the internet and met another girl - this time he made sure the girl was of age and even checked her ID - she was 19. They met and I think became sexually involved in some capacity. The girls father was upset with her for meeting a guy on the internet and decided researched my brother's name on the public court access website. Well of course he found out what he was on probation for and promptly called the cops. The probation officer had my brother arrested and immediately revoked is probation. She cited rule violation and deemed him a threat to society because the girl "looked young" and turned out to be bipolar. She actually held the fact that the girl was bipolar against my brother - as if he was able to diagnose her mental condition. My brother spent one full year in jail. Since he violated is rules, I expected him to be revoked. But I did find the comments in which the P.O. framed her statement as being "a threat to society" odd - that the girl "looked young" and the fact that she was bipolar.
Incident 2
My brother served his year in jail. He was on the Huber side for his last 3 months of his sentence, meaning he could leave jail for work. They also allowed him some extra time to look for apartments so he had somewhere to go once he left jail. In addition, he had to meet the P.O. at the probation office for a weekly meeting. After one of his meetings (three weeks prior to his release from jail), he had 30 minutes of unaccounted time from when he left the P.O. office to when he returned to jail. He was in the parking lot of the P.O. office the entire time and was seen there by his P.O. His best friend met him there to give him updates on the apartment hunting situation because he had a couple of good candidates to look into. My brother gave his friend instructions on which apartments to look further into and then when back to jail for the day. The P.O. stated that he did not have permission to have his friend show up and put him in lock-down for the last three weeks of his sentence. Because of this, he lost his job and was not able to secure an apartment prior to leaving jail.
Incident 3
My brother finally gets out of jail. He has a strong commitment not to violate any rules because he didn't deal with being in jail all that well. He frequently would break down sobbing and became very apologetic to his family for the trouble he has put them through. He was released on a Sunday morning with no where to go since three of his last four weeks were spent in lock-down. He asked is P.O. where he could stay while he searched for apartments and she told him the local Salvation Army. My mother called the Salvation Army on the day of his release and inquired about bringing my brother there, but the denied him because of his original conviction and the fact that they have children staying there. (Again, I can't stress enough that he is NOT a predator, but has been lumped into a stereo type because our system currently doesn't differentiate severity, however I do understand the Salvation Army's position and why they denied him). Now my brother is scared because he has no where to go and doesn't want to stay anywhere without approval. We decided his next step should be to call his P.O. but there was no answer. We considered all options. His entire family lives in an adjacent county and he's not allowed to move between counties without approval. His only good friend lives a few blocks away, but the P.O. has banned his friend from staying at the same place because back in high school they were drinking buddies. He could stay in his car until he gets a hold of his P.O. but it's the dead of winter and was 5 degrees F outside which is an inhumane expectation. Plus staying in a car could put him in an unapproved area of the city with a high population of children. As a family we decided that he should stay by his friend's house (who has no internet access and no alcohol in the house - we verified this by touring his apartment). We also had him call his P.O. again and leave a message stating that the Salvation Army won't take him and he has no where to go for the night so he'll be by his friend for the night at xxx address and will await her call back to instruct him where to go for the next night. The very next morning, the police were knocking on the door to arrest him. She sent him back to jail for violating the rule that he stayed at an unapproved place, EVEN THOUGH THE PLACE SHE TOLD HIM TO STAY AT WOULDN'T TAKE HIM (and she should have been fully aware that the Salvation Army wouldn't take him with his background). She took no responsibility, denied that my brother had called to inform her (even though we have phone records and two witnesses) and stated he's intentionally violating his rules again. This caused him to lose another job, which he only was able to hold for one week as he was forced to spend two weeks in jail prior to her releasing him.
Please See the Part 2 Threat for the rest of the story!