meatbag2007
Jan 27, 2012, 06:06 AM
Hey guys, I'm quite new to all of this and not sure If I'll even get an answer but I don't really know where to turn. Here it goes.
I'm 19 and she's 17 going into year 12. We met each other from our mothers and became really good friends. We hung out nearly every night for weeks and eventually one night when she broke up with her ex and that night we both broke the touch barrier and kissed. She stopped and said that we can't because of our mums being friends, if anything happened to us we'd corrupt their friendship.
So we both left it. I was hoping for a second chance and its been about 4 months later and we've been still hanging out every night. She had just recently came back from a 3 week vacation. I eventually couldn't take it, I told her that I liked her and she never seemed to care. I came over to her house and I asked for her honest opinion of me and why we couldn't go out.
She said: because of our mothers, because she didn't want to fall in love with me, because she would think I'd regret it, because she will rip me apart, because her mum said no, because she just wants to be friends because it's a 'perfect' friendship, and because she wants to do the right thing.
She said that all of her previous boyfriends have ****** her over and made her life worse. Telling her that she's a horrible person and given her bad reputation.
My emotions took over and I kept asking why not give me a chance? She kept refusing and said no. I said that her reasons didn't make sense. I asked if she felt anything when we kissed, she said no and that it was a mistake. I asked her if she ever thought about us, she said 'yes' she did think about it, and 'yes' we'd make a good couple but she doesn't want to. I eventually gave up and went home after saying we'll still be friends.
About 4 hours later she calls me up asking if I wanted to hang out, and I said yes. So we did. We haven't spoken about it and I'm still shaken from it... And I don't know what to do...
What do you guys suggest? Should I just stop seeing her? Is she really over me? Did she have anything to begin with? Is there a chance that I can still be with her? How can I get over her?
I love this girl. And I want to be there for her. But I don't want to be left hopeless. What do I do?
I'm 19 and she's 17 going into year 12. We met each other from our mothers and became really good friends. We hung out nearly every night for weeks and eventually one night when she broke up with her ex and that night we both broke the touch barrier and kissed. She stopped and said that we can't because of our mums being friends, if anything happened to us we'd corrupt their friendship.
So we both left it. I was hoping for a second chance and its been about 4 months later and we've been still hanging out every night. She had just recently came back from a 3 week vacation. I eventually couldn't take it, I told her that I liked her and she never seemed to care. I came over to her house and I asked for her honest opinion of me and why we couldn't go out.
She said: because of our mothers, because she didn't want to fall in love with me, because she would think I'd regret it, because she will rip me apart, because her mum said no, because she just wants to be friends because it's a 'perfect' friendship, and because she wants to do the right thing.
She said that all of her previous boyfriends have ****** her over and made her life worse. Telling her that she's a horrible person and given her bad reputation.
My emotions took over and I kept asking why not give me a chance? She kept refusing and said no. I said that her reasons didn't make sense. I asked if she felt anything when we kissed, she said no and that it was a mistake. I asked her if she ever thought about us, she said 'yes' she did think about it, and 'yes' we'd make a good couple but she doesn't want to. I eventually gave up and went home after saying we'll still be friends.
About 4 hours later she calls me up asking if I wanted to hang out, and I said yes. So we did. We haven't spoken about it and I'm still shaken from it... And I don't know what to do...
What do you guys suggest? Should I just stop seeing her? Is she really over me? Did she have anything to begin with? Is there a chance that I can still be with her? How can I get over her?
I love this girl. And I want to be there for her. But I don't want to be left hopeless. What do I do?