View Full Version : Should I text my ex boyfriend saying happy birthday?
Mriana
Jan 25, 2012, 03:58 AM
We break up 3 months ago... On christmas I sent him a message : merry christmas:) he texted me back : merry christmas:D... Should I text him for his birthday?
ScottGem
Jan 25, 2012, 04:24 AM
You shouldn't have "texted" him the Xmas message. However, if you want to send a birthday card by regular mail. That would be OK. Texting indicates that you want a response.
DoulaLC
Jan 25, 2012, 04:46 AM
If you are still friendly with him, sure, wish him happy birthday.
If you are thinking you might want to get back together, and he is not seeing anyone, go ahead. However, if he is seeing someone else, leave him alone and move on.
talaniman
Jan 25, 2012, 03:06 PM
As long as its just a birthday greeting, and not trying to keep the door open for romance, why not?
mmresd
Jan 25, 2012, 03:10 PM
No, go no contact and move on. Past relationships are meant to stay in the past, there is no need whatsoever so text an ex.
Homegirl 50
Jan 25, 2012, 03:53 PM
I see no problem with it as long as that is all there is.
Only three months after a break up why are you wanting to communicate?
slapshot_oi
Jan 25, 2012, 04:18 PM
I wouldn't bother. If he doesn't text you back you'll be hurt.
Wishing someone a happy birthday via text is just slightly better than the obligatory wall post.
I wish
Jan 25, 2012, 05:18 PM
What's the point? Unless you want to get back together or you want to be friends? IF you don't want either, then what's the point?