I've lived with my grandparents my whole life. I want to live with my mom. But every time I tell them I want to, they give me a guilt trip and they tell me and ask things like you don't love us anymore? And things that just make me feel bad for asking WHAT DO I DO?

Why don't you live with your mom? Why your grandparents?

Please tell us the whole story.

Why don't you live with your mom? Why your grandparents?

Please tell us the whole story.

My mom was young when she had me. She kept me for a while but when my mom and dad ddivorced she handed me over to my grandparents when she came back for me my granparents said she was unstable and not a suitable mother.

And that may well be the case, Your grandparents deserve respect, honor and love. They keep and raised you when mom was not there for you. Next it appears it was so bad that grandparents were able to go to court and get legal custody.

So has moved started a visit program,

First, this is not a choice you can make. Only a court can change custody. So if mom wants you to live with her,then she has to go to court and prove to the court she can care for you.

As for your grandparents you tell them that you love them and appreciate their raising you, but you would like to give living with your mom a try. But you only do so, IF your mom files for custody.