JAYESH_P
Jan 23, 2012, 09:16 AM
We were dating for 4 yrs now. During all this time I was more of caring and less of expressing one whereas she was more of expressive one. We both studied in the same college but different classes yet could spend reasonably good time with each other. She used to complain of my nature I.E. lack of expression of love for her but I always thought that its her childish behavior typically girl types as we men think.
But eventually she lost all her patience in waiting for me to realize what she actually wanted. She broke up with me some 5 months ago and since then its all going wrong at least in my life. Now I do realize what she wanted and what she meant. I know now very well what mistakes I made in these 4 yrs and I want to mend them. I have been requesting her since then to give me 1 last chance but she is reluctant to do so.
I know through her close friends (a common friend from the same college) that though she says she doesn't feel for me no more but the fact is that she does the thing is she is just too tired now of my behavior. She has also admitted it before me that she fears that what if after some time my behavior returns back to what it was earlier and hence she doesn't want to get into it again.
Another reason is that her parents won't approve our relation due to inter caste issues and hence eventually it will end up in separation later as well. But my heart is not ready to accept this. I strongly feel that I will win the hearts of her parents with the help of her elder sister who approved our togetherness.
I'm very confused and need some SERIOUS SENSIBLE ADVICE. PLEASE HELP
But eventually she lost all her patience in waiting for me to realize what she actually wanted. She broke up with me some 5 months ago and since then its all going wrong at least in my life. Now I do realize what she wanted and what she meant. I know now very well what mistakes I made in these 4 yrs and I want to mend them. I have been requesting her since then to give me 1 last chance but she is reluctant to do so.
I know through her close friends (a common friend from the same college) that though she says she doesn't feel for me no more but the fact is that she does the thing is she is just too tired now of my behavior. She has also admitted it before me that she fears that what if after some time my behavior returns back to what it was earlier and hence she doesn't want to get into it again.
Another reason is that her parents won't approve our relation due to inter caste issues and hence eventually it will end up in separation later as well. But my heart is not ready to accept this. I strongly feel that I will win the hearts of her parents with the help of her elder sister who approved our togetherness.
I'm very confused and need some SERIOUS SENSIBLE ADVICE. PLEASE HELP