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Sunnystar25
Jan 21, 2012, 03:43 PM
Hello, I'm 14 turning 15 in march my boyfriend is 18 and I have an aunt who really dose not like me and is threating me that if I do something wrong with her she's going to call the cops on my boyfriend I'm wondering if he can be charged with statutory rape? I've looked into it a little bit and from what I've found he can't be for the most part but I'm still worried about it.

BayBaysSister
Jan 21, 2012, 03:52 PM
Maybe Its Not That Your Aunt Doesn't Like You.. Maybe It's the Simple Fact That Your Messing Around With A 18 Year Old Boy. Honestly You're a little Wrong On Your Part. You Shouldn't Get Mad At Your Aunt For Calling The Law, She Has Every Right.. He's An Adult And You A Miner! You Shouldn't Even Been Messing Around In The First Place

Tadnjj
Jan 21, 2012, 04:18 PM
Absolutely, it is statutory rape!

AK lawyer
Jan 21, 2012, 04:22 PM
... Your Messing Around With A 18 Year Old Boy. ... He's An Adult And You A Miner! ...

Correction: she is not "messing around with" a boy. Assuming they are having sex, she is a child, having sex with a grown man. He is a pedophile and a felon.

And I don't know what trade she is in, but I doubt that she is a miner. She is, however, a minor.


... I've looked into it a little bit and from what I've found he can't be for the most part but I'm still worried about it.

As well you should. If you would tell us what state or country you are in we could look and see what the specific law is, but chances are he is guilty of statutory rape. That is, as I indicated in my above comment to BayBaysSister, a felony.

Sunnystar25
Jan 21, 2012, 04:38 PM
I don't think so I beleave that the law says that in between 5 y3ars different its not statuory rape if you're not having sex.

Sunnystar25
Jan 21, 2012, 04:41 PM
I live in britsh colombia canada and I have not had sex with him

AK lawyer
Jan 21, 2012, 04:45 PM
i live in britsh colombia canada and i have not had sex with him

Ok, sorry, your previous posts strongly implied that you have.


i dont think so i beleave that the law says that in between 5 y3ars diffrent its not statuory rape if youre not having sex.

You are sustantually correct; there are close-in-age exceptions to the age of consent (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ages_of_consent_in_North_America#Canada) of 16 in Canada:


"There exist two close in age exemptions, depending on the age of the younger partner. A youth of twelve or thirteen can consent to sexual activity with an individual less than two years older than them (sic). A fourteen- or fifteen-year-old can consent to sexual activity with a partner who is less than five years older than them (sic).[8]"

So the law does not prohibit the relationship in any event, if you are not having sex. The exception is immaterial. But even if you were having sex, the exception would apply in your case.

Sunnystar25
Jan 21, 2012, 04:52 PM
I'm just concerned on what could happen because my aunt is threating me with charging my boyfriend but my parents are toldly fine with him.

Fr_Chuck
Jan 21, 2012, 04:54 PM
Who has custody of you, Aunt or parents.

Next a 14 year old child has no business dating a 18 year old adult. But there are plenty of other laws, I am sure they can find to use other than rape

151 (Sexual Interference), s. 152 (Invitation to sexual touching), s. 153(1) (Sexual exploitation), s. 160(3) s. 173(2) (Indecent acts)

As for as that goes, if your Aunt has custody over you, or if the person who does, merely orders the 18 year old adult, to stay away from you, and he comes around, they can get a order of protection against him, if he takes you anyway, even perhaps kidnapping or at least interference with custody.

Sunnystar25
Jan 21, 2012, 05:04 PM
Fr_Chuck
Who has custody of you, Aunt or parents.

Next a 14 year old child has no business dating a 18 year old adult. But there are plenty of other laws, I am sure they can find to use other than rape

151 (Sexual Interference), s. 152 (Invitation to sexual touching), s. 153(1) (Sexual exploitation), s. 160(3) s. 173(2) (Indecent acts)

As for as that goes, if your Aunt has custody over you, or if the person who does, merely orders the 18 year old adult, to stay away from you, and he comes around, they can get a order of protection against him, if he takes you anyway, even perhaps kidnapping or at least interference with custody.

My parents have custody over me. And what do those 4 laws entail?

Sunnystar25
Jan 21, 2012, 05:12 PM
My parents have custody over me. And what do these 4 laws entail?


151 (Sexual Interference), s. 152 (Invitation to sexual touching), s. 153(1) (Sexual exploitation), s. 160(3) s. 173(2) (Indecent acts)