View Full Version : Is my ex saying that she made a mistake?
werewolfsteak
Jan 20, 2012, 10:24 PM
I texted my ex and we talked casual. Then she said sorry for hurting me (this would be like the third time she's said that) and I said mistakes happen, then she goes on saying that she says sorry a lot because she makes mistakes. I don't know if she made a mistake of breaking up with me, or what?
Just want to know the answer because soon after she said she wasn't in a good mood, and she said that she had to go. Any help?
talaniman
Jan 20, 2012, 11:16 PM
How old are you both and why did you break up?
Regardless, she is the only one who can answer your question, but I wouldn't get my hopes up that she wants you back.
Lance69
Feb 1, 2012, 04:36 AM
Relationships are tough without adequet communication. Give her space and listen. If you continue to hear the same thing and she continues to apologies, then you need to ask yourself, is this relationship healthy for you and what you really want. The definition of insanity is continuing to do the same thing and expecting a different result. We cannot force others or make others change and sometimes it takes being apart and letting the other person know that we will be there for them, but we cannot continue being emotional victims or hurt. No one deserves that and may have to be the stronger persons. Her emotions and feelings are all over the place and she may be upset that she wants what she had as what she has is not what she wants. Hope this give you some insight.
mmresd
Feb 1, 2012, 07:16 PM
She probably is sorry for hurting you through the break up, not that she feels breaking up with you was a mistake.