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ceebee33
Jan 17, 2012, 12:41 PM
My boyfriend and I have bee together for over 6 months now. We used to have sex in the beginning of our relationship 2 times a day, but now its once of week if that. I obviously assumed he's cheating and we talked about it a little more. He said he gets like this with ex gf's, but our relationship is pretty serious. He says he is still attracted to me. I am 26 and he is 33, does age matter? I don't know what to do. I have tried to dress sexy and what not. He says he is content with life and loves me but sometimes just isn't in the mood. I think I am the abnormal one because I always want sex.

His this normal for guys in the mid- thirties?

ceebee33
Jan 17, 2012, 12:53 PM
I should probably add that he always is affectionate with me, loves to cuddle, kisses me, smacks me *** because he loves my butt lol. I see him a lot, 3-4 times a week. Might be a little too much. I do text him a lot so maybe I smother him and that's a turn off? It's not like he isn't into me but I always initiate sex, and I never want to force him to have it, but hey! I have needs! Lol

smoothy
Jan 19, 2012, 06:33 AM
First off, You've only been together 6 months... its NOT serious yet. Heck, you barely know each other.

The infatuation stage just wore off a lot quicker for him than it has you.

Depending on how much and how often you text him, it very much can be a turn off. Particularly after the initial infatuation wears off. Eventually it can actually become irritating past a certain amount. Its one of those cases more isn't better.