I've been doing a long distance for a little over a year. This girl and I just started talking and it turned into something I couldn't have imagined. She ended up visiting me 5 months into it, and it was amazing. She had to leave and I didn't see her again until my pre deployment block leave. I thought the first time was good, but the 2nd time was absolutely perfect, and I honestly just fell for the girl.

A month into the deployment is our anniversary, and she had been saying how hard it is, and complaining, but nothing unusual, and eventually she went on vacation for two weeks, which we didn't talk too much, and for the very beginning part, one of her friends was a past acquittance. While on vacation she turned 21, and all of a sudden she comes back, thinks we are too serious, and is freaking out. This girl was drooling over me until recently, and I have been down, and out, cause she is having a great time while I'm stuck here.

She was different when she got back, and very upset, and frustrated, I know she is young, and I think she is immature, but she wants space. So I just said okay talk to me on the weekend. What should I do? I think just giving her space, will realize she is wrong?

She prob doesn't want you to text her or be talking to you 24-7 and that's okay because I don't like to be bothered all the time either . She could be going though things and you don't know it . And trust me if she tells you to leave her alone Don't DO IT ! Every 10 mintues just tell her how much you love her. Because all girls do that to get attition ! I promise.. how this helped !

If you truly love her.. you won't ever stop fighting for her

That just feels wrong. She said she wanted space so why would I keep tellling her I lover her, she knows that. She is freakin cause we got serious so fast and she's young

It is wrong but the other poster is 13. Clearly the thrill is gone, and a young persons feelings can change fast, and often. Treat it like its over, and regroup your own life, and go back to doing your own thing without her. It was fun while it lasted though, right? Now leave her alone.

Who knows, her feelings may change back, but that's her call to make.