Sophieanne
Jan 15, 2012, 03:27 PM
My boyfriend and I have been together a little over a year. We have always had a rocky relationship, as it was kind of "forbidden". When I was 16, I dated one of our mutual friends, that friend and another made it very clear that if we wanted to be together, they would never speak to us again. We did it anyway, because we thought we where perfect for each other. About two weeks after we became official, he cheated on me. I found out a few months later, we broke up for a while and I took him back.
Since then we have been great, we moved to a new state together and all was fine. Now, he refuses to have sex with me. And sex is his thing. He has had sex with over 40 women (yes I had him get checked). It has been over a month since he even looked at me like he wanted me. Last night he told me he wanted me to stop trying to have sex with him, that he would initiate when he felt like it.
I don't get it, we where the couple that had sex every day, that annoying couple that kissed in public all the time. Now I can barely get him to hold my hand. He slept on the couch last night, for no reason. He just never came to bed, we hadn't argued or anything. Every time I bring up something and ask him "why", he just says he just does, and has nothing else to say. Just is how it is.
So my question is, what do you think is going on? He always tells me if he didn't want to be with me, he wouldn't be. Which is true, he can leave when he wants. So what else could be going on? I do not need sex, but the fact that I have to ask him if I look pretty, and that my own boyfriend doesn't want to have sex with me?
I'm out of ideas. Is he cheating? Is he tired of me? Is he gay? I mean I'm not an ugly person, I am in no way overweight. So if someone has some idea what could be going on in his handsome head, I would love to hear it. Thank you.
Since then we have been great, we moved to a new state together and all was fine. Now, he refuses to have sex with me. And sex is his thing. He has had sex with over 40 women (yes I had him get checked). It has been over a month since he even looked at me like he wanted me. Last night he told me he wanted me to stop trying to have sex with him, that he would initiate when he felt like it.
I don't get it, we where the couple that had sex every day, that annoying couple that kissed in public all the time. Now I can barely get him to hold my hand. He slept on the couch last night, for no reason. He just never came to bed, we hadn't argued or anything. Every time I bring up something and ask him "why", he just says he just does, and has nothing else to say. Just is how it is.
So my question is, what do you think is going on? He always tells me if he didn't want to be with me, he wouldn't be. Which is true, he can leave when he wants. So what else could be going on? I do not need sex, but the fact that I have to ask him if I look pretty, and that my own boyfriend doesn't want to have sex with me?
I'm out of ideas. Is he cheating? Is he tired of me? Is he gay? I mean I'm not an ugly person, I am in no way overweight. So if someone has some idea what could be going on in his handsome head, I would love to hear it. Thank you.