Okay, I have been with my boyfriend for about 6 years now. I have to say we had many troubles in our relationship but eventually we solve it. Every thing was great but lately I have noticed his changing behavior weeks ago.

He stopped calling me, and I do all the calling, he really started to ignore me like am not exist anymore, so I decided I should talk to him about it. When I asked him about this he said he is too busy to talk to me, and that he has no time but he loves me.(that was his answer)

All I think about is if he so busy working what about the weekends? Did he really have no time at least to text me a message saying hi for a whole 2 weeks? I didn't mind at first, calling and texting him, but now I doubt him. Is trying to break up with me?

I don't know what's on his head, but after all you have been through, and dealt with over the last 6 years, it would seem that communications would be a lot better.

Stop calling and chasing, and put up with no more of this behavior. He will either talk, or leave, and it has to be on his own accord.

For sure he is taking you for granted at the least, and being dishonest at the worse. But if you allow this behavior, you will get more of it.

I was talking to him last night and he was like apologizing and saying sorry and its not on his hands... should this mean any thing , should I believe him?. am just confused and I really want to end up this situation...

He would have to give some better answers in my opinion, or else I would be angry as hell to be ignored, and not talked to honestly.

I would really be beside myself if he just brushed it off as being busy, and din't have time for some kind of contact.

How have you resolved past issues? Maybe you forgive and forget and keep going rather than resolve things, and that's just sweeping things under the rug. Out of sight but still there. Is this possibly what's been going on.

You are right and that is how I feel exactly right now... maybe he still holding things from the past but for me I opologized by every way you can imagine for every mistake I have done and forgave him for his mistakes because there is no use holding grudges...

I feel like trapped, I don't know if he still in this relationship with me or not... its just not a good situation to be in...

All I can do is giving him some more chances for some days ahead and then I will know what do...

The way I have handled this uncertainty and confusion before is by deciding what it was I wanted and striving to get it.

You may feel trapped, but you are not. You can make good decisions for yourself, once you figure out what's acceptable, and what's not. You have made a pattern of apologies, and carry on, but one day you will actually talk and honestly express yourselves to each other. People never forget, and all I AM SORRY brings is a temporary truce until the next event.

That's how resentments and grudges build. You may be able to let go, probably to keep peace, and avoid further conflicts, be I don't think he is the same.

I may be out of line, but I sense a growing resentment in YOU! You guys really do have to talk and listen calmly, and honestly with each other, and have a great deal of patience. Unresolved, long buried issues tend to explode rather emotionally after time.

I was talking to him... and he said he is sorry for this situation and things will change for now on... but I just can't forget about the last two weeks ( I still don't believe him for that)... should I let go and open a new page with him like he said?

If you don't believe it then why waste time on it? Just do your thing, the things you know make you happy without him. He wants to suck you back in, and you want to protect yourself. DO SO! Protect yourself.